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人的一生，会遇到各种各样的人和事，对于一些不如意的人和事，要学会放弃。

In people's lives, they will encounter all kinds of people and things, and they must learn to give up for some unsatisfactory people and things。

放弃不属于你的感情，珍惜你身边的幸福。不在乎你的人，不懂得珍惜你的人，要学会放弃，因为你做得再好也不会得到他的认可，所以别再执迷不悟地付出。

Give up feelings that don't belong to you and cherish the happiness around you. People who don't care about you, people who don't know how to cherish you, learn to give up, because no matter how good you do, you won't get his approval, so stop obsessively giving。

放弃失败带来的痛苦。每个人都不可能事事成功，不是所有的努力都会有收获，也不是所有的失败都是你的过错。要学会忘记失败的痛苦，重新振作起来，总结失败的教训，重新制定目标，才能获取新的成功。

Let go of the pain of failure. Everyone can't succeed in everything, not all efforts will be rewarded, and not all failures are your fault. We must learn to forget the pain of failure, pick yourself up again, sum up the lessons of failure, and re-set goals in order to achieve new success。

放弃无用的抱怨。人活着，苦和累是避免不了的。抱怨生活中的苦和累，并不能改变，只能想办法去改善，让自己成为生活的主人，努力把日子过好。

Give up useless complaints. People are alive, suffering and tiredness are unavoidable. Complaining about the hardship and tiredness in life cannot be changed, you can only find ways to improve, make yourself the master of life, and strive to live a good life。

放弃无效的社交。不要以为参加了几次聚会，认识了很多人，你就有了真心朋友。那些人只是逢场作戏，转脸就忘。与其把希望寄托在别人身上，不如好好提升自己，让自己变得更优秀。

Give up ineffective socializing. Don't think that if you go to a few parties and meet a lot of people, you have true friends. Those people just play on the scene, turn their faces and forget. Instead of pinning your hopes on others, you should improve yourself and make yourself better。

放弃不是失去，放弃不是妥协，而是把重要的留下来，把美好的记下来，腾出宝贵的时间，做有意义的事情。所以，学会放弃，是一种智慧。

Giving up is not losing, giving up is not compromise, but keeping the important, writing down the good, freeing up precious time, and doing meaningful things. Therefore, learning to give up is a kind of wisdom。