喵大人是什么意思？喵大人可不是想亲就让亲

喵大人（一脸傲娇）：哼~愚蠢的凡人，还不快过来亲亲！

铲屎官：...喵大人的心思好难猜！我要研究下文，讨我们喵喵的欢心！

你是如何对你的猫咪说爱老虎油呢？如果你以吻示爱，那你是否好奇猫咪是不是喜欢你吻它呢？

付兰妮·希亚弗是About网站上一名喵星人专家。她在她的脸书主页上为我发起了一次投票，并发现，她读者几乎都会经常亲吻他们的猫咪，但不知道他们的喵是否享受亲吻。

喵星人总爱摆出一副高贵冷艳的样子，但研究表明，它们真的真的很爱它们的主人。但猫咪们示爱的方式与我们熟知的方式大相径庭——这表明我们要了解它们的示爱方法。铲屎官们真的还有更好的方法来传达爱意吗？

无需惊讶，你表达爱意的时间，地点，方式，都会影响到喵星人的状态。尽管一些猫咪似乎十分喜爱和依赖主人的吻，但其它猫咪可就没那么享受了。碰巧的话，你可能会知道你的喵是不是喜欢被你亲来亲去。

一只喵星人对亲亲的反应十分多变。昨天喜爱，今天就不屑，早上还一脸欣喜，晚上就又闹又叫，十分嫌弃。它们是一群喜怒无常的小家伙，但若是掌握了“猫语”则对你了解它们大有裨益。

首先，喵星人之吻与人类的吻十分不同。你是否注意过，当你的猫咪感到放松和愉悦时，它会一边看着你一边慢慢闭上眼睛？它可不是在睡觉，它确实是在向你抛媚眼和飞吻哦！（就下图这个懒样啦）猫科动物行为研究学家杰克逊·盖世解释说，当猫咪对着你闭眼，“它们就是想让你知道，它们愿意向你展示它们的脆弱。”这就是爱~这就是爱啊！（音乐响起！）

话说回来，你应当知道一些特别的喵星人行为来了解它们的意图。如猫科动物行为研究学家帕姆·约翰逊·博内特所说：“当你的猫咪眯着眼，耷拉着耳朵时，它显然不是在向你撒娇。”

下面这两只猫的情绪就完全不同：

这只猫明显不开心啊。

但这只：

就是一只高冷猫在表达享受和喜悦之情。（虽然看上去一脸嫌弃）

除了亲吻，你还有很多方法来告诉猫咪你爱它。研究员盖世上传了一个叫做“地狱恶猫”的视频，这只叫做“菲姆”的喵星人成功转移了单身汪在情人节的悲哀，但视频中的方法每一天都有用。

我主要是想告诉你，面对亲吻，有些猫喜欢，另一些则不然。快去了解你的猫咪并弄懂它是否享受你的吻，这样你就能用它的方式大声说爱了。

英文原文：

Do cats liked to be kissed?

How do you tell your cat you love her? If you do it with kisses, have you ever wondered how much she likes them?

Franny Syufy, the cat expert on About.com, ran an informal poll for me on herFacebook page and found that the vast majority of her readers kiss their cats regularly, but most were unsure if their cats enjoyed the attention.

Cats like to act demure, but research shows that they truly do love their humans. But the ways they express that love are different from what we're used to — which means it's something we can learn from. Are there better ways to show our affection?

It should probably come as no surprise that cats can be fickle about when, where and what type of affection they receive. While some cats seem to like and lean into human kisses, others most certainly do not. Chances are, you know which side your cat falls on.

A cat's like or dislike for affection may even change from day to day (or hour to hour.) The same cat that loves affection in the morning may swat or hiss at such attention in the evening. They can be moody critters, but learning to speak their language can go a long way toward understanding them.

For starters, kitty kisses are much different from the kind we dole out as humans. Have you ever noticed that when your cat is relaxed and happy, he closes his eyes while looking at you? No, he's not just sleeping. He's actually sending you a kiss! Cat behaviorist Jackson Galaxy explains that when cats close their eyes to you “they’re letting you know that they are vulnerable to you.” Now that's love.

Again, you need to know your cat's particular signs to understand what they mean. As cat behaviorist Pam Johnson-Bennett explains, "Narrowed eyes with ears at half-mast are certainly not displaying love and affection at that moment."

In other words, there is a big difference between this:

This is not a happy cat.

And this:

This cat is just oozing with love and affection.

In addition to kisses, there are other ways that you can tell your cat you love her. This video from Galaxy of "My Cat from Hell" fame" was created as a funny diversion for Valentine's day, but his tips are relevant year-round:

The bottom line is that when it comes to kisses, some cats like it and some simply don't. Get to know your cat and how she likes to show affection so that you can speak her language of love.

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译者：DM

2016.2.24

原文链接：

http://www.mnn.com/family/pets/blogs/do-cats-liked-be-kissed

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